Helpful Advice..Seriously?





Sometimes Not All  Helpful Advice is Helpful at all...sigh.

 

Have u ever feel down,sick or sad and even in pain?And sometimes you might seek helpful tips or a kind advice from a friend.But most of the time they will give you the Helpful tips without you expect it. What they gave you is like....as if they pour acid on an open wound..ouch! Yeah...they think they give a good positive advice and expected we will be motivated by it.But hey!..sometimes we just need a basic hugs or shoulder rubs and simple kind words like " I hope you will get better soon" or just "get well OK".


People should be more EMPATHY..what is EMPATHY?
"The action of understanding, being aware of, being sensitive to, and vicariously experiencing the feelings, thoughts, and experience of another of either the past or present without having the feelings, thoughts, and experience fully communicated in an objectively explicit manner."

In a nutshell, Empathy is the feeling that you understand and share another person's experiences and emotions.So before giving Helpful Advice see the situation, be more sensitive on her/his feelings.But well...now days who cares, they think they are smart giving advice without consider others feeling.Phffttt....

My Helpful Advice is..Be Empathy,have a good heart and speak kind words.If you have nothing good to say Just Shut Up! and Don't bother to give any of your Helpful Advice...because I'm afraid it will bring more damage emotionally.